Life is like a game of dodgeball.
Your goal in life is to not get hit by a ball. Even if you get hit by a ball, you are not out of the game. The dodgeball being thrown at you are lessons. You get back up on your feet, you learn from the mistakes. You avoid trying to get hit by another ball. And you try to win the game. Thank You for reading my blog! If you want to get to know me better, check out my following social media accounts I use the most! Twitter: @11nightsinjune https://twitter.com/11NightsInJune Instagram: JonasCyrusDisneyVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusdisneyvirus/ Instagram: JonasCyrusVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusvirus/ Instagram: FuckYeahDDLovato https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahddlovato/ Instagram: ChristieMaManips https://www.instagram.com/christiemamanips/ Instagram: CodyAlliTommySimpsonPictures https://www.instagram.com/codyallitommysimpsonpictures/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/1623Christie/videos Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NickJonasMileyFandom/
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Today, I am going to dig open into those scars and bruises and share a personal story. I loved someone, back when there were no online dating sites like Tinder. Back when there was MSN, that group chat all teens used, back when Facebook first came out, back when iPhones were not a thing yet, when it was flip phones. I loved someone, he was a friend, I guess you could call that. This guy was my friend, we went to the same high school and we would hang out. I loved this guy so much, that I hated when he was around other girls. But this guy was a player, talked to every girl out there. I loved this guy so much, that I had to learn how to ignore and just forget about him since it was something that will never happen.
I want to take a moment and share what I liked about him.
This guy made such a huge impact in my life. That I even remember crying how I wasn't with him. How I dreamed, we should be together and own a big house with golden retriever dogs, a pool, and some children. I will always remember him, but I have learned to let go. To ignore him, to ignore who is around him. Goodbye. "How strange it is, that after all that we are strangers again." "I kinda miss you... I kinda hate you too..." Thank You for reading my blog! If you want to get to know me better, check out my following social media accounts I use the most! Twitter: @11nightsinjune https://twitter.com/11NightsInJune Instagram: JonasCyrusDisneyVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusdisneyvirus/ Instagram: JonasCyrusVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusvirus/ Instagram: FuckYeahDDLovato https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahddlovato/ Instagram: ChristieMaManips https://www.instagram.com/christiemamanips/ Instagram: CodyAlliTommySimpsonPictures https://www.instagram.com/codyallitommysimpsonpictures/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/1623Christie/videos Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NickJonasMileyFandom/ Back in December 2016, around Christmas. I started a Tinder account. I wanted to see what it was like to date. So I have been getting to know guys for about almost 2 months. I am not perfect when it comes to dating, to be honest, I have never dated. I just wanted to share some tips, what I have learned while getting to know someone you hope you have a connection to. 1. Don't annoy someone (especially if he's still in school.) So, there is this guy I LOVED. He's currently in school, finishing his medical studies. He's in his last semester if everything goes well. He will be back. Honestly, I think it's great that he's concentrating on his studies. Nothing against him putting his career first. But if you are wanting a friendship or something more with your match. Don't annoy them so much. That's is why now on WEEKENDS I try and give people I talk to space. So I'm not constantly trying to get to know them or sending tons of messages on the weekends. Only on WEEKDAYS, I talk to people. I mean as a guy, they have a lot to live up to. Especially if they are Asian. Parents want their children to be a doctor, lawyer, accountant. So if you're into a guy like that. Give them space to focus on their education, don't be so clingy. 2. Background checks. I'm not a fan of people who are into drugs or 420 things like that. I usually ask the drug question. But the most important question I would think to ask someone is. ("you're not currently seeing anyone or planning to start something right?") So recently I got to know someone. I think this guy is awesome. We'd text on weekdays and on weekends I give him some space. So far out of all the guys I met, he actually takes the time to respond to my messages and really talk. If I date, I'd prefer to get to know someone through a conversation before actually starting something. Anyways we were talking and he's like super positive like a sun on a cloudy day. When I am upset, he will send me positive messages, he knows what kinds of food I like, he's also into helping animals which is a plus. But I just found out, he "started" a relationship. So if you are a "match" and you think you could become more then a friend. Ask them that question next time before actually giving them your social media accounts. Before actually becoming "friends." I mean it was/is a nice friendship, but I'm looking into trying a relationship for the first time. If you ask the question, that way you won't have to go through a heartbreak. That way it isn't the end of the world. Thank You for reading my blog! If you want to get to know me better, check out my following social media accounts I use the most! Twitter: @11nightsinjune https://twitter.com/11NightsInJune Instagram: JonasCyrusDisneyVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusdisneyvirus/ Instagram: JonasCyrusVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusvirus/ Instagram: FuckYeahDDLovato https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahddlovato/ Instagram: ChristieMaManips https://www.instagram.com/christiemamanips/ Instagram: CodyAlliTommySimpsonPictures https://www.instagram.com/codyallitommysimpsonpictures/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/1623Christie/videos Facebook: Niley (Nick Jonas & Miley Cyrus) and DIsney Celebrities https://www.facebook.com/Niley-Nick-Jonas-and-Miley-Cyrus-and-Disney-Celebrities-156750487754922/ |
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