Back in December 2016, around Christmas. I started a Tinder account. I wanted to see what it was like to date. So I have been getting to know guys for about almost 2 months. I am not perfect when it comes to dating, to be honest, I have never dated. I just wanted to share some tips, what I have learned while getting to know someone you hope you have a connection to. 1. Don't annoy someone (especially if he's still in school.) So, there is this guy I LOVED. He's currently in school, finishing his medical studies. He's in his last semester if everything goes well. He will be back. Honestly, I think it's great that he's concentrating on his studies. Nothing against him putting his career first. But if you are wanting a friendship or something more with your match. Don't annoy them so much. That's is why now on WEEKENDS I try and give people I talk to space. So I'm not constantly trying to get to know them or sending tons of messages on the weekends. Only on WEEKDAYS, I talk to people. I mean as a guy, they have a lot to live up to. Especially if they are Asian. Parents want their children to be a doctor, lawyer, accountant. So if you're into a guy like that. Give them space to focus on their education, don't be so clingy. 2. Background checks. I'm not a fan of people who are into drugs or 420 things like that. I usually ask the drug question. But the most important question I would think to ask someone is. ("you're not currently seeing anyone or planning to start something right?") So recently I got to know someone. I think this guy is awesome. We'd text on weekdays and on weekends I give him some space. So far out of all the guys I met, he actually takes the time to respond to my messages and really talk. If I date, I'd prefer to get to know someone through a conversation before actually starting something. Anyways we were talking and he's like super positive like a sun on a cloudy day. When I am upset, he will send me positive messages, he knows what kinds of food I like, he's also into helping animals which is a plus. But I just found out, he "started" a relationship. So if you are a "match" and you think you could become more then a friend. Ask them that question next time before actually giving them your social media accounts. Before actually becoming "friends." I mean it was/is a nice friendship, but I'm looking into trying a relationship for the first time. If you ask the question, that way you won't have to go through a heartbreak. That way it isn't the end of the world. Thank You for reading my blog! If you want to get to know me better, check out my following social media accounts I use the most! Twitter: @11nightsinjune https://twitter.com/11NightsInJune Instagram: JonasCyrusDisneyVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusdisneyvirus/ Instagram: JonasCyrusVirus https://www.instagram.com/jonascyrusvirus/ Instagram: FuckYeahDDLovato https://www.instagram.com/fuckyeahddlovato/ Instagram: ChristieMaManips https://www.instagram.com/christiemamanips/ Instagram: CodyAlliTommySimpsonPictures https://www.instagram.com/codyallitommysimpsonpictures/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/1623Christie/videos Facebook: Niley (Nick Jonas & Miley Cyrus) and DIsney Celebrities https://www.facebook.com/Niley-Nick-Jonas-and-Miley-Cyrus-and-Disney-Celebrities-156750487754922/
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