So, it has been crazy these last few months. I have been learning a lot about myself as an individual and learning how to interact with others. In this blog, I would like to discuss why in my opinion there are a lot of body shaming, eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia and whatever disorder out there that girls go through. Before I dive into the topic, I would like to let you know I do not have all the answers and this is all based on what I am learning while interacting with others that are in my life. So, as an individual, I love, LOVE my body yes I go to the gym sometimes but it is not like I am wanting a change in my body. I go to the gym sometimes for fun. I go there just to exercise once in a while and to release those endorphins that apparently make me happy. Usually, I go to the gym by myself and sometimes I go with friends. If and when I go with friends or just, in general, hanging out with my girl friends at the gym. Something I ofter hear is "you are so skinny", "like how are you so skinny", "I need to lose weight", "you eat so much, but you are still so skinny. How?". Here is why I feel like girls are so self-conscious about their bodies. When you are in high school, some girls start to date and at first, you are like I don't care I still got time so you just leave it and continue to do your own thing. As you get older most of your friends are starting to have boyfriends, they go out on dates, some are in a 2-year relationships already and then you start to wonder why don't I have a boyfriend or girlfriend? Now, this is where the whole body image plays a part. I think when we all say "we are nice", "we do not hate", "we are not racist", "we don't judge others", or "we love everyone." In reality, we are not nice, we are racist in some shape or form, we judge others at one point or another and we don't love everyone there has got to be someone we dislike. Or someone we dislike for ruining our day that perfectly went well in the morning. As for myself, I try to be nice but at the end of the day, you should ask yourself am I really that nice? In my opinion, from seeing and learning how to interact with others, we all have a specific "type" we are looking for when it comes to dating. I will give you an example of what I want when looking for a guy. I want someone:
So, here are my examples of what I look for in a boyfriend. We all say, "we don't judge others." But secretly when we are looking for that one boyfriend or girlfriend we have a list of what we want and that is when the whole BODY ISSUES come up. Like whether you know it or not if your a boy or girl looking for someone we all are judgemental. For example a boy looking for a girl, may want the following:,
For example, take Joe Jonas from the Jonas Brothers. In the past, he dated Gigi Hadid who is a model, tall, blonde, skinny, beautiful, young. Now, he is currently in a relationship with actress Sophie Turner who is also tall, blonde, skinny, beautiful and young. These two ladies look similar. My point is, we all have a type, and when we start to question why we are still single while all our friends are dating. Then as both girls or boys, we start to compare ourselves with others, like am I skinny enough, pretty enough, tall enough, do I need bigger boobs or a bigger butt. This relationship game is dangerous instead of focusing on how others may perceive you, just love yourself and love your body. The right boy or girl will come along and you are going to have the time of your lives. Just let it flow and don't put so much pressure on yourself to try and be like other girls or boys. We are all unique in different ways, like a snowflake. Here are two songs dedicated to you. Love Myself | Hailee Steinfeld Scars To Your Beautiful | Alessia Cara Joe Jonas and Gigi HadidJoe Jonas and Sophie TurnerAs you can see, Joe Jonas has a specific type of girlfriend he is looking for as well. Thank You for reading my blog!
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